Nothing in this world make a statement that we're destined to be with someone, doing something, be at one particular place or something made the arrangement for us for been at some particular place.
We as human has made the choice, decided to be somewhere, and desired to be with someone.
Fate itself just did it's role as a form of your name, your parents, and where you were borned.
You can't change that.
That was 3 things that fate gave us
Place where you were born. You can't choose where you were born like picking a clothes that you like. You can't change that either. Only with some legal paper but it is inevitable that the origin of you were.
Parents, yes you can't choose them either. You can't choose with whom you were raised and get acquainted to. You can't choose some cool rockstar that lived somewhere in Hollywood or somewhere in the middle of nowhere. You are here, with some money to access internet with your cool phones and quite lucky to have all of that.
Name, because it's inevitable that you were born with a designated name. You can't ask your parents to pick some cool name for you. Sadly, no.
But yes, other than that 3 were you choice. It's your call, your effort. Yes you can change that.